Tuesday, September 17, 2013

Independence

Independence is extremely important for tour child's personal growth and development.  Your child is growing, changing and developing & needs freedom to explore and do things on their own.  

your child is capable of doing many things on their own or with guidance from you.  They do not need (and should not be reliant on you) to completely dothings for  them: like getting dressed in the morning, writing their name, putting things away.  They should even be able to help out with chores like setting the table or sorting laundry.  Yes, they need guidance from you but that should be in the form of verbal directions, showing them how (and then having them do it) & encouragement.

We are helping to foster this independence at school but it must also continue at home.  Please give your child the freedom & encouragement to do things on their own.  You will be surprised what they are capable of.  If you always do everything for your child they may cry or complain at first but remain firm & they will quickly learn to follow your directions & try it on their own.  This will only help them become stronger and more capable people now & in the future.